New in town, or on your own over the holidays? 16 ways to start a conversation
December gatherings, language-exchange nights, Christmas markets and New Year's Eve parties with strangers. Sixteen warm openers that skip family, money, religion and politics, and work whether or not you celebrate Christmas (Hanukkah, for example, runs 4–12 December 2026). Pick one, smile, then actually listen.
16 openers
4 graceful exits
You do not owe anyone the whole evening. A kind exit leaves the door open for the next hello.
3 tips
Looking for somewhere to go? See the Christmas markets you can visit alone: Christmas markets 2026 on Come Alone
General advice for any December gathering. Dates are given only as facts; nothing here assumes what you celebrate.
